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sex keeps going wrong!
For a while now me and this guy have been having really good sex, I'd say about 3 days of the week, 2 or 3 times each day I see him.
Things were going REALLY good sex wise with him, and I think both me and him were loving it; we're both quite highly driven people, constantly horny etc. haha
So about three weeks ago I got my period during sex with him and naturally we stopped things as soon as we noticed. He got thrush about three or four days after that (whether it was linked or not I don't know) and we couldn't have sex for two weeks because of it (he said it was uncomfortable or painful for him). So that was about 2 and a half weeks we couldn't have sex. Then we tried it again and he came quite quickly so it wasn't that great. It's been three weeks now since we had good sex! We tried again last night and i started randomly bleeding from my urethra (god knows why!) so we had to stop. Then it just wouldn't stop bleeding so that was that evening ruined.
I'm getting so horny!! I am seeing him again tomorrow evening and I want to make sure that nothing goes wrong! The bleeding i experienced yesterday was a one off; i have had no pain at all and no more bleeding since then so i don't think it will happen again. There's no cuts.
How can i make sure that nothing gets in the way of us having a good evening?? I can't leave it any longer without sex!! Another thing... if it does go wrong, how can i stop myself from feeling grumpy and annoyed? I've been feeling pretty depressed since last night :(
Thanks!!
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You asked a multi part question and also left out a very important question. So lets take this a step or part at a time.
1)Passing blood through your Urethra is not something to take lightly. I'm not a doctor and to my knowledge none of us are. It is possible you passsed a Kidney stone or you may have a Bladder or Kidney infection. Whateever the problem is it needs to be checked out by the proper specialist. For this problem that doctor would be a Urologist. This is a doctor that specializes in problems of the Uninary system. I urge you to see one as sooon as possible.
2)Your BF comming quickly when you resumed your sex life I believe is a two part situation. Unless he relieved himself during the 2.5 weeks or you helped him with getting off during that time. He was probably very excited. That would be normal and I would think his recovery time would have been quite fast and able to continue and satisfy you on the second round. You didn't say if you two had a second round that night.
Some men find bleeding, menstral bleedig, a turn off and some find it a turn on. Some women are the same way not wanting any sex during their period while other women are super horny. Bleeding from your Uethra of course meant you had to stop.
I think you getting your period while having sex and him then getting thrush has done a job on his mind. It didn't help him that you started to bleed again during your last sexual time together. This is going to take time and reasurance that it won't happen again. So you do need to see a doctor to find out why you bled from your Urethra as it is the only way to reasure him and yourself that it won't happen again.
3) When medically cleared to resume your sex life I would recommend no pressure. If you two are the type to just run in the bedroom tear of your clothes and jump in to bed, don't do that. If you are the type to sit on the couch and seduce each other, don't.
Start with a relaxing evening, may be with dinner out or something you cook. Then let things progress naturally from there. Don't rish things. As things going wrong and feeling grumpy. My only advice is don't set your expectations to high. Expect that things may go wrong and that you may have to be flexible in what you desire as well as encouraging to him.
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For one, to be truely satisfied by sexual means you must make love to a sweetheart in a relationship, and 2, if your bleeding regularly i would seek out serious medical advice about that.
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Well if it had been a while since he had sex after the thrush that probably explains him cumming quickly that time, as for the random bleeding I suppose getting it checked is the best thing.Just enjoy your evening together and try to not think of sex as it puts an added pressure on the evening :)
As far as not feeling grumpy I'm not sure what you could do, if he finishes too quickly again you could ask him to pleasure you until you have done yourself perhaps, although if you start bleeding again I'd stop and go see the doctor
Goodluck x
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