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my friend watches porn?
yesterday my friend told me a secret (shes 14/f and im 13/f) she said she watches porn. is that when people watch other people have sex? what does it mean when a girl watches that? should i let her keep watching it?
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I agree with the user below.
Porn is like 'model sex', I say this because models in real life are perfect seemingly after they go under all the digital editing hair and makeup.
Anyway. In society's point of view she shouldn't be watching porn. In my personal point of view, the only bad thing that could come of it is her expecting something different suing sex when she has it. You have to let her know that porn is all hair and makeup, real sex is genuine and without the cameras. It's between two people who want it. Not a person who does it for a job.
Porn is a decent way to learn about sex though and what happens through it.
Hope I helped. !
Hugs&rockets---Michelle f/17
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Well, it would probably be best if she didn't watch porn all that much. Porn is basically movies and pictures of people having sex, but the important thing to remember about it is that it's fantasy, not reality. Porn isn't about real sex any more than Indiana Jones is about archaeology. It's idealized, and choreographed, and heavily photoshopped - it is NOT realistic. Thinking that real sex is like porn is kind of like thinking that high school involves spontaneous song and dance numbers, just because High School Musical depicts it that way.
What it means that she watches it is that she's curious. Unfortunately, we live in a society where porn is the most readily available source of information about sex, even though it's distorted.
Insofar as whether you should let her keep watching it, there's probably not a great deal you could do to stop her. You could tell her parents, I suppose, but don't expect her to consider you a friend anymore after that. I suggest you let it slide. It's not the worst thing she could be doing.
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