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Parents have stopped me seeing my lesbian girlfriend
Ok, so here's the story. I'm 14 years old and very mature for my age. I was in a committed relationship with a girl but it only lasted one month. My backstabbing "best friend" gossiped about me and the news spread round the school. Only me and my girlfriend did more than kiss, she touched me too. I know I'm too young and I don't know what came over me but neither of us have that type of personality. Like I said, I'm very mature for my age and we knew what we were doing. She's 15 though but she didn't force me into anything and she was gentle and careful with me. My friend told other people and soon everyone got to know. My so called "best friend" keeps denying that she told anyone even though everyone knows she did therefore I've stopped being friends with her even though we were like sisters. I have a family member that works at the school so as soon as the story spread she got to find out. She then told my parents and now, I've lost everything. My parents went crazy, they said I'm too young to do anything like that and I broke down. I understand I shouldn't of done it and I said I was truly sorry. I promised my parents I wouldn't do anything like it again but they don't trust me anymore and now they have stopped me speaking to her. I'm not allowed to talk to her, see her or meet her again, it's killing me. I may be only 14 but I did love her and my life has turned upside down. My parents wont give in no matter how much I beg them. I know I have done wrong at an early age but all I wish for is another chance. I have lost my "best friend", my trust with my parents and my girlfriend and now I don't know what to do. I miss her so much and life isn't the same without her however, I know that my parents are still really worried about me and wont let me speak to her. It may not be the most wisest idea to post this on the internet but I need help, I don't know what to do.
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well its abit unfair that your parents arent letting you even talk to her (like romeo and juliet isnt it) but you have to listen to them maybe you can text each other if you can but if not let your parents calm down and maybe they will allow you to talk to each other then you can like build your relationship back up but dont actualy try anything that shows you love for to much until your older. if i had kids that were 14 and lesbians then i would stop them from dating but not from dating but thats just my opinion. hope this helps
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Well, as long as you live with your parents, you have to abide by their rules.
Really, if they feel that you are too young to date, or whether you are dating the wrong person, you just have to live with it, as harsh as it sounds. They're really just trying to do what's in your best interest, even if it doesn't seem like that.
Personally, if I had children (I don't: I'm 20), I wouldn't let them date at 14. You should enjoy your childhood, rather than try to grow up too quick. You will have around 60years to be an adult. You have less to be a child. So enjoy it.
In short: you just have to live with it.
Good luck :)
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