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i would give him more respect if he acted like a real man
im a married 31 year old woman who is having problems in my marriage my husband wants to do everything for me not in a good way he wants to think for me tell me how to dress wear my hair what to say and everything your mother and father did when i was a child ive been sleeping on the floor for the last couple of days because i just dont want to be around him my choice he is always talking about he s the head and i understand but u just can t talk the talk u have ti walk the walk to i pay all the bills except the ones he wants to pay cable bill so i feel im the head of the house i need some advice on what to do about this situation because i do love him but i dont want to be doormat when im doing everything he is suppose to do if he wants to be respected by me ive been in controll my whole life my mother couldnt tell me what to do because i had to raise her kids for her i would give him more respect if he acted like a real man please help me i really love him too
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He is abusing you mentally and emotionally.
Technically the only way to save a marriage like this is if he actually wants to change and help himself. I would recommend marriage counseling but if he isn't willing to put his share into it then I'm going to have to say maybe it's time to just part ways. Continuing to stay married to man who controls you life is only going to do nothing for you but cause you misery in the long run. Nobody is ever entitled to stay in a marriage they are not happy in. Do you really love him? or do you love the thought of being with him? No man has the right to tell a women dress, act or even say for this matter. Seriously, Do you want to continue to pretend you are happy or do you want to move on and perhaps see what else is out there for you?..
You deserve better
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This is just my opinion but I think you need to lay down the law. Let him know that you are your own person and that you speak for yourself. You have to be honest with him and let him know how you feel if you want to see any change.
I hope this helped.
~Andrew~
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