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boyfriend and friends putting peer presure on me ?
I'm not sure if this is peer pressure but anyway.my boyfriend wants me to have sex with random guys infront of him but I don't want to. He says he will brake up with me if I don't and my friends say they won't be my friends anymore. I turned 12 a few days ago and he is 16. I don't want to be a little slut but what am I going to do without my friends? And I really love my boyfriend. My boyfriend always wanted to have sex with me and to finger me but I always said no and he didn't mind but now he does mind and I don't know what to do!
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These people don't really like you. I know this sounds harsh but BREAK UP with your "boyfriend". Find yourself a guy who really loves you for you, and sees something special in you that attracts him to you. Not some crazy loser who tells his twelve year old girlfriend to have sex. You aren't even at the age of consent yet!
I wouldn't call this group of disgusting creeps my friends. Don't let them take advantage of you! Like Andrew said, you need to stand up for yourself and your beliefs.
You are a wonderful person, and those people don't deserve you. What they are doing is despicable; don't let them get away with it!
Good luck, and I hope things work out for you :)
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You were right to say no to him and your friends. Do not compromise your beliefs for some guy. Who cares what your friends say. LET THEM LEAVE! Those people you hang with are not your friends. And it is illegal to date someone way older than you are. And also, what you said in the very first sentence sounds familiar to prostitution which is also illegal. All I'm trying to say is get out of this relationship NOW! And if your friends are on the side of adultry, let them leave too. YOU BE AN INDIVIDUAL AND STAND UP FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN, AND LET NOBODY TELL YOU WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE OR YOUR BODY!!
Stay strong.
~Andrew~
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Break up with him
Threatening to dump you if you do not do as he says is WRONG of him.
He is manipulating you and trying to use you. Also, it is illegal as he is way to old for you.
Dump him and find someone else
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Break up with him.
Do it over the phone or email if you are afraid of him.
This is why it's illegal in most places for a 16 year old to get sexually involved with a 12 year old - because 16 year olds who want girlfriends that much younger than them, often just want them because they think they can get away with abusing them.
He is abusing you. Your friends are even worse.
I know it's scary, but friends who ask you to put yourself in danger are not friends at all. They are abusive assholes who are trying to hurt you.
Stay away from them and talk to an adult if they don't leave you alone. What they are doing is 100% wrong. You need to get away from them and stay safe.
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Don't give in to what they are telling you to do. To be honest, they sound like assholes who are trying to get you to do something and then use it against you later. No boyfriend or friends for that matter should ever be pressuring you to do anything that you aren't comfortable with. You deserve better than that, and if they ditch you because you refuse to do what they say, then why would you want friends like that anyways? As for the boyfriend, tell him to eff off. That's a very inappropriate request of him. If he loves you, he'll respect you and your body.
Don't settle for anything less than you deserve. There's so much better out there <3
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