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i feel like a slut..
My husband & I have been married for 6 years now. Well he always wants me to give him blow jobs that is all that comes out of his mouth. I feel that he is treating me like a slut. Is it so wrong for me to think & feel that way.
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Hi there,
Perhaps it is a good idea to figure out why, exactly, this makes you feel like a slut.
You are married, right? When you want him to perform oral sex on you, do you think it makes him feel like a slut? Probably not.
So why is it different for you, I wonder?
First thing to do is tell him how you are feeling, and the next thing I would suggest is counseling to figure out where these feelings came from.
In marriage, there is no sluttyness for either of you. His body is there for your pleasure, and vice versa. Any time that doesn't feel OK anymore, it is something that needs to be figured out.
Beyond all that, I would also want to know why he seems to prefer oral from you. It could be the same reason you prefer oral from him. Perhaps he is having trouble reaching climax from regular sex? Sound familiar? Happens to men also.
I hope you two are able to figure this out. Silly reason to end a marriage, but if you don't take care of this, it will most likely be the ruin of your marriage.
All the best to both of you!
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