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Ex versus current bf!!!


Question Posted Tuesday June 12 2012, 8:56 pm

Broke up two weeks ago with my bf of 1 1/2 years because we were arguing and I wanted to be his 1st priority, but I wasn't. So I spoke with him once during this 2 weeks, I called him! Okay, so the day we broke up, I had 4 guys start talking to me, some from my past, some new, and some I knew from school. Anyway, I hit it off with one of the guys and he asked me out and I accepted (too soon, I know)! Anyway, posted it on facebook that I was in a relationship and my ex blew up, calling me saying he wasnt over me and so on, for once he was the one crying. So, I love him with all my heart and I like this new guy, but of course he gives me too much attention. I texted my ex yesterday, and I made him mad. I know that everything will always be about him in his relationships, but I love him. I don't know what to do, help me, please!


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Additional info, added Wednesday June 13 2012, 1:12 am:
Well, I was really wrong for getting into a new relationship so soon, just because I liked the attention and it was rebound from my breakup, I know it. I broke it off with the new guy tonight. I hope I learned my lesson, I don't know what the future holds, but I hope I can stay away from my Ex. Have any more advice?.

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Xui answered Tuesday June 12 2012, 10:59 pm:
1. Your ex is your ex for a reason

Why did you jump into a relationship with someone else if you aren't over your ex? That is unfair too your current boyfriend and it is never cool too lead someone on.

2. Your ex-boyfriends 'tears' are likely tears of jealousy and maybe even a guilt trip to get you to feel bad for him.

Why? You are in a new relationship and your ex blew up. Well, I will not argue in the aspect that two weeks is awful fast to be dating someone new when you were with the person for over a year. However he is wrong on his part because you two weren't dating, You broke up.

I honestly think you should be honest with your boyfriend and yourself now before you really cause chaos. Move on from the ex boyfriend. Stop texting him anserig his calls etc. If you want a meaningful relationship with someone then worry about you and your current boyfriend not old baggage.

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