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Virginity
i have never had sex before and i know what they say if a penis has entered inside a girl they have lost there virginity but i haven't had a penis inside me but i have bled before because of a dildo am i still a virgin? or not ?
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The best way to understand this is to understand the REASON for virginity:
Virginity is a person not having any emotional baggage / damage from previous sexual relationships...
... AND being completely 100% free of any chance at all of sexual diseases.
So, if you have never had sexual contact with another person, male or female, then you fit both of those reasons, and are still a virgin.
The problem comes in when you break your hymen for some other reason... then you can no longer prove that you are a virgin.
In fact, the hymen doesn't really prove anything when you think about the reason for virginity. Why?
Well, you can get STDs from fingering, oral and all other forms of sex, so you could have 5 diseases and still have a hymen, see what I mean?
There are SO many people on here who lie about what virginity is really all about, just to make themselves feel better about things they have done.
Perhaps the one that stands out is the person who said she had sex with over 100 guys (mostly one night stands) but she was still a virgin because all that sex was either oral, or rectal. She even said that she had gotten two different diseases but she is cured now, so she is still a virgin because she has a hymen.
Can you see how insane that sounds? :-(
Imagine the guy she marries, and how he is going to feel when he finds out he married a disease factory that was pretending to be a virgin... how horrible would that be?
So, again, now that I cited an example, does it help explain what virginity is in reality, instead of this fantasy land where people say: "You are a virgin if YOU think you are a virgin" instead of looking at the reality of things?
Basically, no matter what you do... when the time comes that you are with a guy sexually: TELL THE TRUTH!
Having been lied to about that in the past, I can tell you that the truth up front is always better than a lie you find out about 10 years later. Trust me.
Aren't you glad you asked? :-)
P.S. If anyone tells you the hymen is what virginity is all about... ask them how any guy could be a virgin, since they don't have one. That should shut them up. :-)
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