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My crush and his ex
Well i used to like this guy and lets say that we 'dated'...then he started going out with my best friend...they hurt me really bad and now they arent together anymore..it happened over a game of spin the bottle...the guy was really sad when they broke up and he didnt talk to a lot of people about it.. although it wanted them to break up i didnt want it to be like this..He talks to me about it and my 'best friend' talks to me about it too... no matter how much i try my best friend(female) wont take him back...her ex(my old crush/'boyfriend') was really sad, he even cired.. the girl cried too but for totally different reasons.. i know this is long and i am sorry but that wasnt even the end..What should i do?? they both really trust me now that this has happened..I dont wanna be mean and drop them both in the dirt but i dont wanna help them because i feel they will get back together...so what should i do??
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This is just my opinion, but if I were you, I would help them get back together or at least get them to stop thinking about eachother only because I don't want to see them in pain anymore. Or if I just broke up with my girlfriend and someone like you helped us get back together, I would never ever be able to stop thanking you for the rest of my life literally. But this is completely your decision. I say your friends are too broken up to try and fix things by themselves and they need support.I hope this helped.
~Andrew~
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By being there for him. If not, then you will probably most likely meet someone else you like better. And being this way towards them will not only make you look good but will keep you from feeling guilty and bad about breaking them apart.
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All you can really do is be there for both of them. Talk it out like you do, offer support and uplifting encouragement to get them back on their feet. I've been through situations like this, helping two friends. But in a worse way. And sometimes it's not always about you. The two friends I was helping, I had a crush on the girl. (Yes I am bisexual) and even though I had a chance to be with her, I made sure she worked it out with the guy she liked. I just thought "well if me and her are meant to be, it will happen, but for now, it won't." And that's what you have to do. If you can get them back together you're making 2 people happy. And if they don't get back together, that's alright too. Just make sure you aren't doing this for yourself, but for your friends.
Hope I cold help and good luck :) x
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