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Masterbating - won't work!
F. In order to practice safe sex (avoiding it for as long as I can) I have decided to try to masterbate. People say that everyone has done it before but I'm almost 19 and I haven't ever tried it yet. Sure I'll feel really horny but I wouldn't actually try it. Until today. I was wet...but I felt nothing. Maybe it's because I have nails that I was scared of scratching something inside of me but either way I felt nothing when I stuck my pointing finger inside me, Inside it curled around something. I don't know if I'm just out of touch with my body or what.
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Hey girl!
So, the best thing to do is to RELAX. do it at home, when no one is there, watch some innappropro videos to kind of get yourself loosened, whatever.
Play with everything!!! boobies too!!
also, I don't get turned on by fingering myself, but i do like to play with my clit. the little ball of nerves at the top of your flap. it's delightful. if you were wet, you were totally turned on. fantasy is everythign too!! get creative :P
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Like everything else sex is a learned experience. While it is suppose to come naturally it gets better the more we do it and become familiar with our bodies and our sex partners when you move on. The same is true with masturbation.
Masturbation is normal and a great way to relieve sexual tension. For boys and men it is pretty much a given what they have to do to get relief. For women it is a little more complicated. Some women are more vaginal in their pleasure and some are more clitoral. Then there are some who enjoy both.
From what you wrote you were way to tense to enjoy yourself. I suggest the following. Find a quiet time you can take a nice long warm bath, maybe a bubble bath. When you can sit or lay back in the tub and let the warm water relax you Maybe light some sented candles to set the mood, you can even bring a CD or MP3 player in with you.
Sit relax and let your hands just glide over your body from your neck to your thighs gently. relax and let yourself fell good and see what makes you feel good. Don't forget to explore your breasts and nipples as this is part of your sensory sexual experience. As you find yourself relaxing move on to your vagina. Find your clitoris and gently rub it. this should provide some feelings you may never felt before and they will feel both good and a little tense,its okay. Continue this for a bit then move down to the entrance to your vagina and slowly push your finger in. You may feel something you didn't feel before if so good if not go back to your clitoris and gently run yourself to climax.
I can't be certain what you wrapped your finger around. If it was hard it may have been you pelvic bone. If it was soft and rbbery it could have been your Hymen, they do have holes in them hat a finger or tampon can go through.
If you do as I am suggesting certain you will have an earth shatering outcome
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Hey there,
Okay firstly what you must take into account is that masturbation is different for everyone. What works for one might not necessarily work for another.
Some people find instant pleasure from simply fingering, others need more stimulation.
Most women need clitoral stimulation first.
So try rubbing your clitoris and then fingering. Or you might find that just rubbing your clitoris does the trick. I myself personally find that fingering does absolutely nothing for me.
Also you need to be completely relaxed and at ease whilst masturbating otherwise it won't work and you'll get yourself worked up.
Make sure you are alone have time and are not rushing to get done!
It's great that you are experimenting and exploring your body. It will make it easier to communicate with your partner and show him what works for you when the time comes!
Good luck hope this helps
Much <3
Jess 18/f
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