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I wan't my wife to fall in love with me again.
Hi, I have been married for six years to the most beutiful woman in the world. I am a 42 year old male.I was out of work for almost three years and I have a drinking problem. my wife has been telling me for a year now that she was not happy any more.I've been working a new job now for about 3 months and I quit drinking completley for about a month. I have not been intament with my wife for a long time because she told me that she was not attracted to my drinking.I should of stoped drinking then and took my wife in my arms but I choose to drink with my freinds instead.The reason why I'm writing you is that now that I quit drinking and I finaly went back to work now my wife told me that she dosn't want to be married any more and that she wants me to move out. she also has been going out with a girl freind and not coming home untill the next day when I'm at work .there are no words to explain how much I love my wife.I don't want to loose her but I feel like I already have.I'm willing to do anything to regain my wife's love for me. Do you think that I still have a chance or was I a fool for to long not to listen to my wife's need and wants'Any advise from any one even if your a reader I would deeply appreciate and thank you for your time.
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The important thing is to show her that you did all of this for her. And if all fails, show her this page! She cannot beleive that you made this up! My heart fluffed at reading this!
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I don't think you are a fool at all,I reckon you have a problem with alcohol,you cannot let it control you,you cannot jeopardize your life,or at least what you love the most in your life because of booze,as for your wife,you can't make her love you,that's not how it works,demonstrate how much you can improve your life,prove that you are stronger than alcohol and that she is more important,I like my boyfriend to make me feel special,as if I was the most important thing in his life,women like to be treated this way,and not as if they were outcasts.So I'm sure that if she starts noticing this,she'll realize once again that she trully loves you and that it was only the bad things which made her feel disappointed.So pull yourself together and start working:)
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