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Autistic Stalker
15/f
Hey friends. At the beginning of the school year I met this guy. He seemed kinda odd, but he's autistic so I figured that was why and we became friends. Well, as time went by, I realized that he's actually REALLY FRIGGIN CREEPY. He found my phone number on the Internet. He says creepy things to me. One moment he'll be frighteningly affectionate and the next he'll be all miffed at me and I don't know why. He never lets me out of his personal bubble and never stays out of mine. He genuinely scares me and makes me uncomfortable and other people too. Should I report him? I need advice. (note: I HAVE asked him multiple times to leave me alone or give me some space)
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Autism and Autistic people can be really hard to understand. There is not enough space here to educate you on this subject. I can though understand how you feel.
I don't feel this boy is out to hurt you. Autistic people are generally very loving and kind although when they get confused or if you get in their defined space they can become combative.
I would suggest you speak with your parents. If you know where he lives and he is bothering you at home and at school then your parents have a choice. They can speak with school administrators and let them handle the situation or they can speak directly to the boys parents.
I do not think this is a matter for you to report or try to handle on your own. I believe this is a matter better left to your parents and older adults.
While they are working on a resolution you should try to avoid him if you can. When you can't just be as nice as you can so he remains calm in your presence.
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