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i am going to suicide becoze iam very frastrated from my life.thats all. iam postgraduate and also B.ed.
a always got 1st division in my all studies,but till not get any government job,while many of my clasmates,who were week in studies enjoying life easliy.beside this iam just married six months ago underpressure of my widower mummmy .but i still loved the girlfriend ,she also love me very very very much,she is very honest with me,although se know about marriage.but we can't live without each other.i maaried underpressure of my parennts bezoce i don't got job,if i got before my maarriage i surely married with my girlfirend,who is my first love...plz tell me easyiest way to suicide..i want to die..thats all.
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Suicide is not the answer, my friend. I can promise you this -- life is so worth living. I understand that you are going through some problems with your love life, which unfortunately, many of us have -- however, that does not mean that you cannot fix things. You were pressured into getting married and that is something your parents shouldn't have done to you, but you should talk to your wife and be open and honest with her. That is super important, believe me, I think she will surprise you with her understanding nature.
If you do find that your girlfriend is the love of your life, which I do think you must indefinitely choose your girlfriend or wife (it is not fair to yourself, neither to the ladies if you continue this way), then you must talk to her and make sure that she is ready for the kind of commitment you are looking for. You would not want to leave your marriage unless you are sure that you two really love each other and it is not just a matter of lust, so to speak.
Please realize that though these are difficult issues -- they are not unfixable. You can fix this and make your life better, and others can benefit from your life as well. Though I do not know you personally, I can truly guarantee that you would be so missed because you must be truly loved. You have not just one, but two women who love you and want to be in your life. As nasty as that situation is, you should take it as a compliment.
I hope that I can inspire you to live your life to the fullest and enjoy every second of it -- you deserve a happy, healthy life and that is my wish for you. I do not know whether you are religious, but if you believe in God (I do), I encourage you to pray and seek God because He can help you much more than I can. He knows your every need in the situations you are facing in life. He can help you with those, he can perform a miracle in your life -- I will say a prayer for you, my friend.
To add, I have not been on this site in quite some time, but as soon as I read your question -- I could not help but come back in order to help you. I want to inspire you to live -- please write me back and let me know how you are feeling.
I'll be praying for you, my friend. ]
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