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I have this friend she's a very good friend till know we were hanging out then out. Of nowhere she said that she has problems. Because of that she doesn't get what she wants cause of me and that she hates how I talk to every one I just don't get it what's wrong with her not to be mad i'm just saying she can't go blaming. People for her problems were no longer talking should I be the one to say something first even if I think I had all the right to get mad right I don't know what to do I'm lost
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Its sounds like to me that she is very jealous person and that she only has you as a friend. She sounds like she depends on only you which is not very healthy. I have in the past had problems with friends and I've walked away from them and ignored them figuring that they would coming running after me because I thought they would know what they did wrong. In that case I was the one that was wrong...I should have as a friend told them what was going on. Its great that she is expressing to you that she has problems but is she giving you any solutions or have you two talked it out with one another? Has she just been completely unreasonable for being mad at you? Maybe talk to her and as her why she's so mad you should be able to do that if she is your good friend. If these problems keep up though and nothing get fixed...then I would say you should maybe stop being friends. Being friends is just as hard as a relationship you go through your bad and good times but you need to be able to come to some sort of agreement and if you can't then its time to move on and hang out with other people. Hope it works out!
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