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The last time i wrote on was April, its October. I think i have matured and have became more wiser. My life has change oh so much. The main problem i have is is forgiving my family. Such as my mom and my cousin and nephew. I say my mom, because i really cant look at her the same way . We were in NY , my moms boyfriend and i gotten into a huge argument. He called every curse word and she did NOTHING BUT tell him to shut up . Thats it ! I told her how i felt and she hasn't done anything at all life back to the same way. I was never very fund of him anyway. Shes changed so much. My cousin and nephew because they betrayed me they had the audacity to sit and both talk about me on the phone. I trusted them and thought they would be the last ones to talk about me and TRASH talk about me, i was in tears when i heard about it. I haven't talk to them since 2 months. Forgiveness? Its so hard you forgive when you've been hurt by the same person & its not the first time. Any advice.
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Forgiveness is probably one of the hardest things to do. Letting go of something whether you were right or wrong is hard. It's better to let it go instead of containing that anger. I'm not saying you should forget it but don't hold the grudge. Family is family. With your mother, she is your mother at the end of the day and she has chosen to be with this man. Maybe you don't like the way she is acting when she is with him but you need to accept that. If she's happy she's happy. Forget about him and worry about the relationship with your mother. As for your cousin and nephew, if they want to talk behind your back let them. It only makes them look bad. Maybe try not to be so close to them now since you know this. Be aware of them and maybe don't give out any information that you don't want them gossiping about.
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