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Boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Lately things are not what they used to be. He doesn't make the effort to do anything for me anymore. He will sometimes drive to my house which is thirteenth minutes away but that's once in a while. We text each other and he will ignore me somewhere in the conversation. I'm so sick of it, but it's only hard because I love him.I think most of us girls like being taken out once in a while, and he doesn't do that anymore. I think I should probably break up with him because a part of me feels like he wants to let go of him because he once talked about being trapped. I have weird feelings that he has found someone else. It could just be paranoia but idk. He goes out of his way to make plans with his friends and I come last. It hurts a lot. I honestly don't mind him hanging out with his friends but I think I deserve some time too. I don't know what to do at this point. I was going to wait it out and see how much longer he ignores me and then if he keeps at it talk to him and set him free.
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One thing you need to understand that a relationship as it develops it isn't always going to be the way it was when you first started dating. Things change and so do priorities. You realize as your relaitonship goes on there are decisions that you need to make as well as thinking about your future. In the end its what makes you happy. You don't sound happy with him. Have you two really talked about what's going on and how you feel about how he's acting? Maybe this is a sign that you need to move on or maybe not. I've been with my boyfriend for awhile and I can tell you it isn't romantic all the time. I love him to death though. Sometimes you are going to hit bumps in the road in your relationship. Its how you handle them and how you support each other through them. It sounds like you maybe have made up your mind and maybe you need to do whats best for you. Good luck!
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