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I love him as a brother.
(I'm a 15 year old girl) I've known this guy for 4 years and we've grown close. He's like a brother to me! He has a girlfriend and they've been going out for just over two years. A few months ago, I seriously started to fall for him. It brought tears and that time really hurt me but I promised I would try to move on and he promised he'd help me through it. However it left his girlfriend wary. She's never really liked me but now she completely hates me and doesn't trust me around him. I've sworn I'd do nothing to get between them and I think I've lost the crush, but I still care for him greatly. It's kind of like I love him, but as a friend and not in a relationship way. We are still young so I don't want to come across as anything stupid like 'Obsessed' with him, but I need to tell him how I feel and why I still act like I fancy him even though I don't. It's complex...but I need advice. I just hope he's mature enough to understand in which way I love him.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
One, you're 15. At 15 to a guy, there is no way to "love" him except to be in love with him. Don't try to explain it. Distance yourself from him just because it will make you look like the bad one. Take your time away from the friendship. Don't try to explain, let things go how they're supposed to and everything will fall into place. Explaining things just makes it more difficult especially at that age. Move on and do other things. You don't owe him an explanation, he has a girlfriend for that!
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