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I'm Falling For My Best Friend!
This boy and I have been friends for 5 years going on 6 and he is one of my best friends. We know a lot about each other and I am starting to like him! I'm freaking out because if I tell him and he doesn't like me back I don't know how he would react. He has never had a girlfriend and never admitted to any crushes, maybe it's because we are so close but he doesn't seem like the boyfriend type. Such as we've only hugged a few times because he doesn't like them but we have shared chairs, gotten tangled up in twister, and so many other things. I don't know what kind of boyfriend he would make but he makes me happy and I love talking to him because we have so much in common and have lot of stories to tell each other. I guess what I want to know is if every guy has that boyfriend side to him and what should I do about this? Thanks!
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first, imagine yourself in a relationship with him. would it be the best thing for the both of you? would you rather him be your best friend who you love as a brother, or rather have him as a boyfriend and potentially fall in love with him? give it about a month or so. sometimes, people develop puppy love, which is a small crush that goes away after a short amount of time. if a month has passed, and you still have feelings for him, talk to him. be honest. the biggest risk of all is not taking one. would you rather not take the risk and there never being a chance, or take the risk and there being a chance? even if he doesn't feel the same way about you, at least you aren't going to wonder if it could of been, and move on. plenty of fish in the sea. everything happens for a reason, no matter what happens, remember everything happens for a reason.
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