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Good sex advice mostly from men, but girls are welcome too
17/f me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years and I want to switch things up a bit try some new things make him happier. I'd really like some med advice but girls r welcome to anything helps.
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I agree with nascarfan1987!
My man I have have also been together 2 years, and hes obsessed with dirt bikes, so I got a dirt bike to ride with him...
That made him happy last summer, but this year I don't feel like being black and blue everyday..
His fantasy involved his dirt bikes, and it turned out really good for me too, even though at first it sounded like a death trap..
Here are another couple things I've done;
-He bought me a necklace for my birthday, I have never taken off,
-I bought him a puppy
-I don't cook often because he likes eating out, but when I do cook I make his fav and make sure no one is coming by and make everything romantic and perfect
-I brought him flying once, hes scared of heights, but I'm a pilot and he loved flying
-We went on a road trip to all the major cities of canada
-I clean everyday, and it bothers him somedays, so I'll just leave the house a mess and get extra glammed up for him, he loves it
-I brought him to the Moto Cross last November in Toronto, and it was amazing!
-We have gone to some concerts (G Unit, and Carley Rae Jepsen)
-I have ovarian cysts so every time I have to go to the hospital I let him sleep and leave a picnik lunch, and love letter
-Heck I leave him love letters all the time for him to find, I wrote little messages all over his garage for him to find as he works
-I sing cheesy love songs to him
-I said I had an apt and he drove me to the location, came in and I actually got him fitted for a custom suit
-21 gifts for his 21st bday
I don't know if any of that helps but basically we just have fun, and live life :) and I surprise him all the time :)
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Hm, I'm a female; and I know you wanted male advice, but I have a couple of ideas.
Have you ever asked him what his fantasys are?? Ask him what they are, and than do it.
I'm not too sure how much privacy you guys have; and if you don't have a lot; you can purchase a hotel room and set it up all romantic; and than go from there.
One time, I blind folded my fiance and made him put his hands behind his back; (or you can tie them up) and I basically teased him really bad with some kissing, light touching, ect.
Than I made up for all the teasing and I put ice in my mouth while I went down on him; also menthol cough drops are great too. It gives it a cold sensation and drives them crazy! It also makes them go crazy when you play with their balls while your going down; (some guys don't like it; but you should know how he'd react if you did it)
Also, more about going down on him; there are many different techniques you can use; if you go to youtube, or google, and type in "BJ techniques" there will be an asian lady, and she does tutorials; my boyfriend has a favorite one now!
Back to the hotel room thing; (i say this, so you can have amazing itimacy, without interruptions) dress up. Be a maid, a teacher, a school girl, a lawyer, a nurse-whatever you think makes you look sexy; its different and he'll have fun doing it;
for example:
I got a hotel room and I bought a school girl outfit, and I got him like a principle outfit; and in the room there was a desk; before I brought him there I pulled out the desk and put candles on it to make it look romantic; than I blind folded him before he went in, took him to the bathroom and told him to put on the outfit, when he came out, I was in mine, and I took control. He loved it.
Whip cream, is a good item to use. It gives you a reason to be sticky, than have to take a shower together ;)
You can look up different positions; AND/OR ask your man what his favorite position is. And do it; ask him to try new positions. Find one you wanna try and tell him you wanna try it;
that way it'll be new for both of you.
I'm not sure where you are from, but there is a store here called Spencer's and they have cute outfits, sex toys, and sex coupons.
You could get the coupons and give them to him one at a time, and he can use them whenever he wants; that'll make things interesting.
How about a lap dance? A strip tease?
Sorry for so much; I hope I helped.
I have plenty of more ideas; if you want them, just inbox me!
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