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love or lust or am i just being silly
i have been with my boy friend for 7 months now and just over a month ago he asked me to marry him and i said yes. bout 2 and half weeks ago i have had the feeling that i dont want to be with him anymore and its bugging the hell out of me. i love him with all my heart and soul but that feeling is still there nagging me that i dont want to be with him...i am so confused by this and i have no idea what to do. i have been thinking bout why i feel this way and nothing comes to mind.
i would be very grateful for any suggestions on what i can or should do now?
thank you
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You should try to figure out the reason why your feelings for him are not the same. Also reconsider the fact that you have only been together 7 months maybe it's to early to be bring marriage into your relationship. I think you should just tell him you love him but your just not ready to take that big step yet! Let him know that you will love to marry him but it's just to soon. Marriage puts alot stress on people especially those in short-term relationships.
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You have to consider it and discuss it with him. Not saying you have to go with that, but the honeymoon stage in a relationship only lasts for so long. It's normal for the relationship to change a bit. You should not get married if you are feeling that way. Maybe you just aren't ready for marriage but still want to date him. Either way, he should know what's going on.
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