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Sons wife wont allow me to see him alone
My son is an extremely immature 29 year old he lacks self discipline, coping skills, etc. He married a 46 year old woman. He's been married 4 1/2 years. I have only spoke to her on the phone when they are having problems. I have never incouraged him to leave her only to work on it, go to counseling etc if he's in love. It took a year before he told me they married. Another year to tell me how old she was and i have never seen a picture of her. I finally met her this week. I live 800 miles from my son. I already knew there had to be issues (we all have them) for her to want to deal with his attitudes and character defects. She is so so so jealous she wouldn't allow him to see alot of the time they were here and she wouldnot let me alone with him. If she went to the bathroom he had to go. I can tell by his face and actions he is not happy. He cant laugh without her getting angry. She is extremely ocd, controlling etc. I can get pass all that. But every night they had to go to the motel by 8pm. My son had not seen me in 5 years and his brother for 15years. we asked them to play cards she said no so we asked him to come alone she was livid. Anyhow it ended up the jerry springer show/top cops action. I feel I will never see my son again. How can someone claim they love someone so much yet not want them to see there family or do an activity with them that they did every night when growing up. ANY SUGGESTIONS on how I can cope with this.
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There was a similar situation in my family. You are his father, so you need to sit down and talk with him. Even if that means showing up at his house. Does he have his own phone you can call him on? You need to explain how you feel. He probably feels like he lives with her and sees her every day so if he upsets her, he has to deal with that alone. It's not easy upsetting someone that is controlling and that you live with.
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