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my boyfriend is annoying me! normal?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for four months. Whenever we go out he ''doesn't bring his wallet.'' So I have to pay for his stuff every time. He never asks how I'm feeling and I feel like he only likes talking about himself. I love him and I love being with him. But every little thing can annoy me. Like he cancelled two of our plans this week at last moment. That annoyed me so much since it left me with nothing to do both days. Ever since he sexually assaulted me I don't always trust him. He can text me how much I mean to him but doesn't do it in person. I guess I'm trying to ask is it normal for me to get annoyed with him about these things? 15/female
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Is it normal to get annoyed with boyfriends sometimes? Yes. Is it normal that a boyfriend behaves that way? No. He's the problem, not you.
There is so much wrong with what you described that I really don't know where to start. Honestly, you shouldn't even be with this guy anymore, he sounds like a TOTAL jerk. The fact that you're seeking advice on how to make the relationship work and analyze how you feel about the situation clearly shows that you're trying to be a good girlfriend, which is more than I can say for him.
The fact that the guy SEXUALLY ASSAULTED you is more than enough to DUMP his ass. It sounds like you think it's a problem that you "don't always trust him", but after that, he's not someone to trust at all! Like I said, HE'S the problem. I'm assuming that because you're young you're not really sure what's normal for relationships or what to do about bad ones, but trust me, this isn't normal and he isn't a good boyfriend.
Normally, I would say something like, "But if you really want to work things out you can talk to him..." but honestly? He shouldn't need to be told that he's a jerk. It doesn't matter what he says over text if he doesn't SHOW those feelings in person.
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What do you like about this guy? Honestly, I would dump him and forget him...he sounds awful.
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If I were you, I would tell him how you feel. Guys aren't the best will girls feelings :) If he does not listen to you, I would break up with him. You do not want a guy who will not listen to your feelings and thoughts. Good luck!
-crosey311
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