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Does my mom hate me?
My mom and I used to go out on weekends. Not every weekend but if our schedules meet, we would go to a mall or dine out. It's sort of our way in bonding.
A few years back we discovered that my dad--her husband had an affair and they had a child. It was rough but now I can say that my mom's already recovered but I think one of her ways dealing with our problem then was she'd go out with her friends or just play mahjong with them.
I was very supportive of her because I know she's hurting and was trying to move on but now I asked her a couple of times to go out again, just to hang out but she'll always say she's too lazy to go or just not in the mood. But if her friends would call her she's always ready.
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she doesn't hate you. it's not your fault that your dad did that. she may just be looking for a distraction, and might think that if she goes out with you, the subject she is trying to avoid will have to be brought to her attention. i would try talking to her about it, and tell her that we don't have to talk about it...we can just have a good time. talking to someone usually resolves any miscommunication or misunderstanding. she probably just needs some time to process all that is going on, and may be stressed out and doesn't want to get you involved. talking will help.
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