Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice

Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics


Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)


Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Contact Us

I met a great guy but I learned something I don't like.

Question Posted Tuesday April 17 2012, 11:19 pm

So I met this great guy, cute, funny, smart, and we have a lot in common. We've been out a few times and we talk constantly. But I learned recently that he stole 50 dollars from a friend of mine once.
I'm not sure what to do now...
Ugh, please help??

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?

solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday April 18 2012, 10:19 pm:
Who is this friend? Ask yourself if they are trustworthy or if they had a personal tiff with him before this info came out. Let's say he took the $50.00.

That's horrible but maybe he's learned lessons from it since or there's a whole other side to the story you haven't heard. What should you do? Go directly to the source and flat out ask what happened and make your judgments about him afterward.

Pretty much the only way to deal with especially if it has you this concerned. Nobody said it would be easy but you need dialogue on it.

[ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question

Carriebeca answered Wednesday April 18 2012, 8:11 am:
I think you should give him a chance to explain what might just be bad feeling or misunderstanding on the part of the friend who told you this. Until you know both sides of the story, you can't really judge what happened; it will possibly never be completely clear.
All you can do then is go with your instincts about him and how you get on together.
Hope this helps a bit, let me know how you get on? (This makes me sound really nosey, I know, but I like to know if advice works and situations improve.) Best wishes X.

[ Carriebeca's advice column | Ask Carriebeca A Question

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: My boyfriend: How do I know if he wants to kiss me?
Next Question >>> I feel like my boyfriend doesn't like me as much

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

Is it too forward?
I have a shaved side
love of the past
Where is the colonial oppression here?
I dont know how to get this friendship to "grow"
what ages are hot topic for
i want to dye my hair, but I'm not sure it would look nice
Change color of my advice column?
recent problems involving masturbation
Brushing my teeth makes me poop.
my mom is a control freak
Is This Considered Stalking?
Best friend issue
Why is it a bigger deal for Greece to default than certain African countries
How to ask my mom?
help need to know if im producing real cum
why the FUCK are people now accepting pedophilia?
food coming back up!
Do I call this rape
so i was meditating...

All content on this page posted by members of is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker