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I know that this guy is a jerk..but why can't I let go
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I'm a freshman this year and I got really close with this senior. I thought we were really good friends, but all of a sudden, he stopped talking to me. I was hopeful, thinking that he was a little busy, and he would just talk to me when he had time. But it turned into months and for awhile, I blamed it all of me until I found out he did the same thing to one of my friends. Then, I realized that he's a player and is so self absorbed with himself that he can't have a true relationship with anybody. So now, we haven't talked in....about 5-7 months. And I'm really in pain. I know that there was nothing I could have done about our friendship, but I still feel like crap when I think about him. Every time I see him, it hurts. And I want nothing more than to get over him. Part of me has, but I feel like I'm holding on to it. I just don't know what to do.
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have confidence. it's obviously not your fault he stopped talking t you. why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who is so self-centered? no guy is ever better than you. he only wants attention...don't fall for someone who doesn't treat you the right way. there are plenty of fish in the sea. you have plenty of time in high school to find someone who truly cares about you. don't lose your dignity over him. don't doubt yourself. try the best you can to distract yourself from him.don't worry if you feel like you can't get over him. you will. you just have to find the right guy. but don't try to force it, just give it some time. he will come to you in good time.
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