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Confussed about my marriage life
Hi i am 23 yaers old and I live in montanna. My husband recently is working in another city where he gets paid very good. Whih is good, the only problem is he is 6 hours away. Its been very hard on me and my one year old son since we dont see him very often except when we video chat throught msn. Lately ive been thinking alot about our now 3 year married life and all the things we've been throught. One thing i cant get out of my head is when my husband was talking to a co-worker behind my back .. he would erase the phone calls they made to each other which makes me believe there was something else there althought he denies it. The reason i ever found out about it was because she called him one afternoon and he went outside to talk, i thought it was suspiciouse and looked throught his phone. Soon later i looked throught his call records and found out everything =( Now that his away i dont trust him at all and its breaking us apart little by little. I feel confussed and depressed. And dont know what todo. I always remind him of what he did and we start to argue. I also feel him more distant and althought he says he loves me and wants to see me i dont feel like he really isnt being honest with me and doesnt really care. My heart tells me soething diffrent, do you think its just me or there is really somthing else. I dont want to talk to any family and friends because i dont want to get them worried. PLEASE help.
Veronica M.
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welp... if it was me, i'd probably freak out too but that's because i have a jealousy trust issue. and we most likely wouldn't be married. so to put it lightly, you two are married, you should be able to sit down and talk about this seeing as how communication is literally one of the biggest things needed in a relationship. And if you still feel sick... just ask the coworker. call her and be like, "please be honest with me if you are messing with my husband at least tell me to spare the pain i am going through everytime i think he might be cheating with you"
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