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how much is too much?
Me and my boyfriend like doing stuff (gibbering, hand job, dry humping) and I was wondering how much is too much. Like we hang out about 2 times a week and we always end up feeling each other up and going further. I feel like we're too into sexual stuff but I cant tell. So how often is too often for doing sexual things? 15/female
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TO me this is a very simple question to answer. If you feel you are having to much sexual stuff, you are uncomfortable with the amount of sexual stuff you are doing? Then you are doing to much sexual stuff.
You didn't say how old you are but I will guess you are in your early to mid teens. I won't lecture on abstinence I'm sure your parents have already done that. What I will say is regardless of whether you are just making out or if you go all the way. First you decide what you are willing to do. If you say no or enough is enough. Then he has to stop? Anything done beyond your saying no regardless of what is being done is either sexual assault or rape. By the way that works both ways if he says no.
I hope this helps
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You'll know you're being sexual too often if it's getting in the way of you two spending time together in a way that allows you to get to know each other better.
Relationships are supposed to develop as you learn more about each other and share experiences. If you never talk because you're always attached at the face, that's not going to happen. As soon as the hormones slow down, you'll have some catching up to do and you may be disappointed if Prince Charming is really a toad.
Enjoy the rush of hormones, be safe and have fun. Just don't forget about the other parts of a relationship.
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