I'm 13 and when I was about 11 I got appendicitis and I began having excessive amount of some kind of discharge. I'm not sure what it is and I'm too afraid to talk to my "foster" parents. Also my labia manora is very large and hangs low from my labia majora. I'm not sure but I feel ugly down there. Ive searched about having a large labia manora, everyone alwas says it's normal. But mine is hangs VERY low and it's uncomfortable, also I'm still a virgin. I'm so afraid my BF wont like me when he sees it? Any help on this?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: What does it mean?? JustJessOx answered Wednesday April 11 2012, 9:27 am: Hey there,
About the discharge I'm not sure if that's related to the appendicitis or purely coincidental. Only a doctor will be able to clear that up. However some women just have excessive discharge it's totally normal. Unless it is a rather thick consistency and smells funny. Then it can be an indication of an infection or underlying problem. You should really get it checked out.
As for your labia it is completely normal! Every women is different. If it's uncomfortable again it's something you can talk to your doctor about. It's just a part of your body your going to have to learn to accept unfortunately. We all have our insecurities and parts of our bodies we are uncomfortable with.
Don't worry about what your boyfriend thinks! If he truly loves and cares for you then those silly things won't matter. Trust me when you are with someone you care about all that stuff goes out the window because you feel so comfortable and safe with that person. Like for instance I was very paranoid about stretch marks I had on my thighs and was afraid of my boyfriend seeing them. He didn't even notice and I actually noticed he had some too. It works both ways he will probably have parts he is insecure about too!
Trust me men don't care what a vagina looks like.
it's irrelevant.
So try to relax a little :)
Hope this helps
good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f [ JustJessOx's advice column | Ask JustJessOx A Question ]
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