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Large labia or hermaphradite?
I'm a 40 year black woman, very attractive. I have been single for years and now I am very motivated to be in a relationship. I am bisexual and love oral sex. I am shy about requesting it so I am a top in my girl to girl relationships and I am only a giver in my straight encounters which leave me more disappointed than necessary. I was even beginning to think I might be a hermaphrodite due to the extra skin which swells up sometimes. I'm glad I'm not a hermaphrodite, my OBGYN always says things look normal once inside and never comment on the outside except to look surprised or impressed. I'm assuming I am not intersex but have a large labia. My question: How should I introduce myself to potential sex partners or dates using CL ads for example. What is the code word? I don't want people to respond and harass me.
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You're 100% female. Your OBGYN would have told you otherwise if you were not. It's not unusual for some women to have larger labia than others that sort of hangs and droops. You are normal so don't fret and definitely a girl.
As for your partner I'm sure they will not be phased at all. It's also normal for more of the clitoris to be exposed as well. In fact, having this works to your advantage pleasure wise when in an adult sexual relationship. No worries to be had.
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