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seeking a place to live with a child. this is an emergency my olny other choice is suicide


Question Posted Tuesday April 3 2012, 8:58 am

i m married but my husband dont want me in his life.i dnt have any family ans friend.i wanted to commit suicide,attempted also.but cnt succed.kindly suggest me a place where i can live.i also want to adopt a child.and is willing to leave with child only.m b.tech graduate but dnt have any job at present.i can do teaching.plz HELP me AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.....PLZ

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Delight answered Tuesday April 3 2012, 2:36 pm:
Suicide is definitely a no no. Its time you be independant . You have no idea how good it feels to be independant . You clearly have good qualification, try n post your resume on various sites.

Take up a part time job for the time being.

Once your settled, you can think of a child to take care of.

Seasons change , so be strong and hold on . Help is on the way! :)

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NinjaNeer answered Tuesday April 3 2012, 1:37 pm:
You need to slow down and take one thing at a time.

Your first priority is your living situation. If things are over and you need a place to stay, try contacting your local YWCA or women's shelter. There are lots of resources for women that can help you by giving you a place to stay while you get a job and get on your feet.

As for adopting a child, this isn't the time to do it. A child deserves a home that is stable and happy. A mother in transition like you are won't be able to give a child everything they need. Wait until you have a job and can support yourself, and until you have a place to live at the very least. Most adoption agencies won't allow you to adopt unless you meet certain qualifications.

If you're having trouble finding a job because of lack of experience, try volunteering. If you love children and teaching, you could work with kids in an after-school program, or in a daycare. Look around and see what opportunities there are. It can give you valuable experience and a sense of fulfillment.

Suicide is not a good option for you. No matter how much the odds seem to be stacked against you, there's always a way to make your situation better.

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