seeking a place to live with a child. this is an emergency my olny other choice is suicide
Question Posted Tuesday April 3 2012, 8:58 am
i m married but my husband dont want me in his life.i dnt have any family ans friend.i wanted to commit suicide,attempted also.but cnt succed.kindly suggest me a place where i can live.i also want to adopt a child.and is willing to leave with child only.m b.tech graduate but dnt have any job at present.i can do teaching.plz HELP me AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.....PLZ
NinjaNeer answered Tuesday April 3 2012, 1:37 pm: You need to slow down and take one thing at a time.
Your first priority is your living situation. If things are over and you need a place to stay, try contacting your local YWCA or women's shelter. There are lots of resources for women that can help you by giving you a place to stay while you get a job and get on your feet.
As for adopting a child, this isn't the time to do it. A child deserves a home that is stable and happy. A mother in transition like you are won't be able to give a child everything they need. Wait until you have a job and can support yourself, and until you have a place to live at the very least. Most adoption agencies won't allow you to adopt unless you meet certain qualifications.
If you're having trouble finding a job because of lack of experience, try volunteering. If you love children and teaching, you could work with kids in an after-school program, or in a daycare. Look around and see what opportunities there are. It can give you valuable experience and a sense of fulfillment.
Suicide is not a good option for you. No matter how much the odds seem to be stacked against you, there's always a way to make your situation better. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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