worried about my wife's large breasts: i am worried about her Character before Our Marriage
Question Posted Wednesday March 28 2012, 4:39 pm
i am from PAKISTAN,
I AM 28 YEAR old & got married 3 weeks ago,
my wife is 25 years old,
she have Big breasts with big Aerola's,
she use's 40 inches Bra size according in our country sizes,
to b very frankly i am worried about her Character before Our Marriage,
If some body can
then please Help & Advice me
i am very tens n upset,
i am sorry if my English is not very correct.
If you are concerned that your wife did not bleed or that you did not feel you broke her Hyman on your wedding night you really do not have something to be overly concerned about.
Now I am not familiar with the practices of your country. That being said today's women even in you country have access to feminine products your ancestors did not. If your wife uses Tampons she may have ruptured her own hymen years ago. This would account for the lack of bleeding and your not feeling the breaking of her Hymen. If your wife is or were very athletic her Hymen could have broken as a result of athletic exercise, falling down or even horseback riding.
The fact that you wife may not have had an intact Hymen does not mean your wife is not or was not a virgin on your wedding night. Her breast are a gift from god and doesn't mean she is a loose women. A small breasted women can have a sexual past just as easily as a large breasted women. The size of a woman's breast has nothing to do with her sexual past. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Rena-Chan answered Thursday March 29 2012, 9:25 am: It is truly understandable that you are tense and upset, especially since you may not know exactly how your wife was previously before marriage, but you must remember, not all women are sleazy tramps because they have large breasts. Even with large breasts, women can still be reluctant about intimacy or anything involving men in that matter. Especially since now-a-days most men (I'm not saying all men) are superficial. The best way to ease your tension and hopefully ease your upset, is to ask her about it. Ask her for her honesty and to be truthful about her character before you two got married. If it is not to your liking, then only you will know what to do. I understand that your English is not very correct, but I do hope my explanation is clear enough for you to understand, and I wish you the best of luck. [ Rena-Chan's advice column | Ask Rena-Chan A Question ]
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