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Should I walk away from my current situation
Hello : ) . Im a 16 year old girl in highshool (10th grader) me and my boyfriend is the same age except he is in the (11th) & very popular. I am not . We started going out in October of 2011 , everything was good he was like my prince charming. Then on Christmas day are problems started happening . He turned into a person I didn't like .Over Christmas break we had our first real arguments. He broke up with me ,and kept telling me he didn't want to be with me .I still was there for him because I love him & he is my current sex partner . January we got back together , but I didn't trust him because I heard he was cheating. We broke up the end of January and haven't been back together since. But we still act like we're in a relationship. We still have sex every week. Just a couple of weeks ago I found out that every rumor I heard was true ( Him cheating, messing with his ex's, fucking other girls, being an asshole) He tried to justify his reasoning's. & It hurt me so much . I hate to say this but I still mess around with him because I'm "in love" I gave up my friendships and everyone around me to be with him, He has complete control over me . When i try to stick up for myself I'm being a bitch, or acting "below standard". I recently meet this new guy , who isn't like my ex who I'm currently dealing with. The new guy is sweet,caring, book smart , and just better than my ex. Now my ex is trying to change , but he hurt me so many times. I've been unhappy for the past 3 months with him. But i love him . What should I do ?
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sweetie, ive been hearing. the asshole ex who cheats, controls, and confuses the fuck out of you but you love them... and you stick around even if it's being a friend or a sex object. But something i learned when i finally found out my "supposed' love was cheating on me... he didn't give a fuck about me. Your guy doesn't care about you. he only cares for himself. and because you're young alot of guys around this age will only care about themselves. The fact that he was cheating even with an ex shows how much he doesn't care about you or your feelings, he uses what you think is "love" to keep you in control. he knows you'll stick around. and he isn't changing, he is just manipulating you so he can keep you around. ditch the guy, kick him out your life. you will only get hurt more as time progresses and believe me it's not going to be easy letting him go because i was there. And don't let the excuse of "love" make you stay because if you think what you had is "love" expect alot of more bad relationships.
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