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i want to be desperately together with him again but i just don't see him agreeing to anything more than friends with benefits.
I have been in a relasionship with this guy since i met him.And i have been the one to dump him 3x in between but we always get back together, untill one day he dumped me because he thought i was cheating on him which i wasnt.He ended up beliving me that i didnt cheat but he said he dosent want a girlfriend anymore but he still loves me so we have been living as friends with benifits, it feels like we are in a reasionship but without the title of going out,because he gets mad if i get of with another guy and i get jealous if he gets with another girl is he using me i dont know? i want to be despratly together with him agian but i just dont see him agreeing.
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it sounds like he does care about you otherwise he wouldn't be getting jealous of you with other guys so you should honestly just talk to him about it... ask him if there is even a chance of you guys ever being together-together because otherwise dumped the guy
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If you are FWB, it is usually best not to live together, as it usually never works out. As you have witnessed first-hand. You dislike him being with other women, and he dislikes you being with other men. In my opinion, it just seems like a really strange open-relationship. I believe it would be best, that if you were to be fwb, you are better off living separately. Is he using you? It may very well be so. The best thing to do, is talk to him, let him know how you are feeling. If he doesn't agree with it, then it would be best if you let him go and tried to be just friends, with nothing else. But truly, the decision is entirely up to you. You can continue with this circle and stay fwb, with no real attachment, or you can say something and do something if he should agree or disagree. I mean, think about it, you are still living with him, and then someday he decides he wants to actually date with someone else, or vice versa, you find someone that you wish to date with. You must consider all of the possibilities, especially if you yourself do not wish to be hurt.
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