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Having a fetish
hi so i have a fetish whr i like it when a girl dominates me. I dont kno if this is normal and im 16 years old. Is it okay to tell my gf other tht im into that kind of stuff? Im kind of scared of her reaction...
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alot of guys have this fetish.. dont feel abnormal or alone. you are fine. just don't let your fetish control your life, and you are perfectly normal :] no worries.
and to answer your question about telling your girlfriend... it kind of depends on a number of things:
1. how long have you and your girlfirend been together? if it hasnt been for at least 9 months+ I probably would not suggest bringing it up or even telling her. you could scare her away, and she might not be comfortable enough around you yet to talk about that stuff.
2. how far have you both gone? because this is a MAJOR comfort factor. and depending on your answer to this, i can help you more with if you should tell her or not.
3. is she the same age as you? becaus eif shes younger, do NOT tell her right now, seriously. if shes 15 or younger, it will make her very uncomfortable and i dont know if she'd be able to handle it. because 16, yes, is young but younger than that.. i would not advise you telling her youre into this kind of stuff.
4. i dont think youre even comfortable with telling her this information, so until you are completely sure and COMFROTABLE with telling her or even mentioning it to her.. dont. youll know when the right time is.
good luck ! feel free to inbox me again if you still need help. xxo.
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