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Should I be concerned about my husband flirting with a client?
I'm a 31 year old working professional with a one year old. My husband is really good looking, charming, flirty by nature and in sales. A year ago he told me about this hot female client of his who hit on him. She asked him to meet him on the weekend at her cottage to pick up some contracts and openly hinted she wanted "more". He never acted on it, told me about it and even avoided her on BBM.
Yesterday I was on his phone and noticed her name in a text MSG. Ofcourse I read it. In it my husband joked that she could give him company on the phone until his next meeting. She told him not to text and drive as he could get pulled over. He replied "it would be fun if you pulled me over ;)". Then he said "..don't respond with "no comments" remember this is all fun and games"
They carried on a little and the text MSG ended. I think he's trying to close a deal with her company but Im still so mad about this since he iniTiated it with a person who already had bad intentions of cheating. I don't know if I should confront him or continue reading his texts to see how this plays out. He's still being sweet and loving with me.....but I'm still soooo mad! Advice??
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Talk to him so that you can realize that your husband is completely in love with you and just made one stupid mistake of trying to flirt his way to close the deal. He now realizes that nothing in the world is more important to him than seeing the smile on your face. The fear of hurting you just confirmed tht this will be the first and last time he does this. The world changed for him when you first met him and he can't imagine it without you. He truly apologizes for the BBM message and from the bottom of his heart, promises to make it up to his incredible wife for years to come...thank you for being you and sorry that I wasn't being the me you know.
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Talk to him.
Continuing to read his texts only layers more deceit and resentment onto your relationship. His behavoir in a few text messages doesn't necessarily mean the end of your relationship: But continued spying, anger and distrust does spell the end between you too.
So don't let it go down that road. Tell him what you found, and why it worries you.
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If you really think he is cheating or has the potential to, you should be honest with him and talk to him about it. A marriage is about honesty.
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