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My First time: Should I do it or not?
So i'm a female of course, 16 years old, and my boyfriend is 17 years old, and i want to loose my virginity to him, but i'm scared. We've almost done it several times. The first time we almost did it he removed half my clothing, and we stopped since i was scared. I'm sort of insecure with my body, but he said he loves me with sex or without it. We've talked several times about doing it, but i'm not sure what to do or if i'll do something totally wrong. I got my promise ring, but i want to try at least once, we know how to turn eachother on but i'm still a little scared. He's only done it one other time his whole life, so i'm not worried about that, but should I do it, or not.? Help please, any advice welcome.
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At 16 I think you are still to young to be having sex. The chances of the boy you want to give your virginity two of being the man you marry is about 90% against. You will probably not even have any type of long term relations ship.
If he is a senior in high school he will leave for college in a few short months and you will both find new people to be with. Then you will go off to college, probably a different one then him. You will then find new friends too.
I would suggest you wait until your in college where your life goals take shape and you have a better chance of a long term relationship possibly even meeting and marrying the man you will spend the rest of your life.
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Do you love him? Is this the guy you really want to say you lost your virginity too? Is there a chance you'll regret it? And if you guys break up, will you have wished you never did it? THESE other the questions you should be considering. And if you are scared and insecure, you might want to hold off. But if you love him and you know this is what you really want that he is the guy you want to remember as your first... then go for it. He knows your a virgin im guessing so don't worry about the not knowing what to do part, let him guide you.
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