How come good guys are so hard to find these days?
Question Posted Wednesday March 21 2012, 5:15 am
How come good guys are so hard to find these days? I mean most guys just want s** what happened to the good guys you know the ones that are actually interested in someone and would like to have a relationship with them?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? father answered Friday March 23 2012, 2:01 am: I don't mean to sound stupid but after reading your question it sounds like your still young and good looking or these boys would not just want sex all the time, and yes they are boys not men !!! In some ways you should take this as a complement and in other ways you should be mad as hell !! And no one would blame you but if you have this problem all the time please look for your love interest in different venues try changing it up a little do something different don't follow your norm !! Take a chance on some one different always remember this " IT"S NOT WHO YOU TAKE HOME FRIDAY NIGHT THAT MATTERS IT"S WHO YOU WANT TO SPEND ALL DAY SATURDAY WITH THAT DOES !! Hang in there honey your worth it !!!!!!! And I'm a guy so there are some of us out here that really do believe in love,respect,honor,trust,and true love at first sight ( Been married for 27 years ) please hang in there baby [ father's advice column | Ask father A Question ]
itdependsonyoux3 answered Thursday March 22 2012, 9:45 pm: I ask myself that question every single day hahaa. I've honestly had the worst luck with guys, and both of the long term relationships I have had have ended badly.. because their true colors come out (and i was in denial, saw their true colors, yet hoped they would prove me wrong. which is the worst thing you can do, because then you get screwed over in the end, haha) .. and let me tell you, those colors are NOT pretty. haha. but you just have to be patient. and dont go for the same guy you always go for.. branch out. thats what im doing ! there are plenty of good guys that we dont notice because we're too busy wasting our time on the ones who we're so used to going for, yuh know ? most likely, youre not going to find the guy of your dreams at a club, so also take where you go into consideration and the types of guys at these places. just keep an open mind :] youll find someone.
hope i helped ! xxo. [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
Imperfectionist answered Thursday March 22 2012, 6:54 am: There are alot of good guys out there. The problem is you might not think they are "attractive" or they may even be just a friend to you. Usually the ones us women don't take the time out to notice are the ones we should. [ Imperfectionist's advice column | Ask Imperfectionist A Question ]
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