Im 18 & I started seeing someone. Me & my parents told him no sex. I have never had any type of intercourse before cause I wanted to wait till marriage so my parents told him that. Please dont laugh but Id not heard of fingering before. Does that count as losing virginity if he did it 4 different times? He told me it was ok so I let him do it. This was only our first date. I started bleeding & he said it was okay. I told my mum when I got home and she was angry he did that. His fingers still went in my vagina goes so does that mean Im not one anymore? Im so stupid to have listened to him. After this happened I keep getting panic attacks and now they cant stop. Pleae help me.
YataiGuy answered Thursday March 22 2012, 2:22 am: Your hymen probably was torn which caused the bleeding. but it can even happen from a rough ride on horseback, so i would say you are a virgin with a damaged hymen. The penis is what de-cherries you when it enters, otherwise, a tampon or an adult toy could de-virginize you and that is not possible because they are inanimate. True, his fingers are alive, bub, well, biblically speaking the act of sexual organ intercourse must take place. [ YataiGuy's advice column | Ask YataiGuy A Question ]
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