I have a boyfriend, but I met a new guy I like... so I gave him my number and now he calls all the time! What can I do?
Question Posted Tuesday March 20 2012, 2:59 pm
Hi!I'd like somebody to help me on this,I have a boyfriend and I love him very much,but a couple of days ago I met this incredibly cute guy on a bus on my way to the doctor,well we started to talk and that was just it,I'm such a fool 'cause I gave him my phone number so he has been calling me several times,I don't know how to get rid of him,my partner still doesn't know anything about it of course,it'd hurt him so much,you know,well I know you may think that I like this other guy,well...I do:(,but at the same time I do know that it's not correct,I love my boyfriend a lot,and I wouldn't like to fall for any other guy,I'm so confused,I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO,KISS!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Imperfectionist answered Thursday March 22 2012, 7:20 am: If you loved your boyfriend, to be brutally honest you would be going around thinking "hey that guy is cute so i'll give him my number" and then not only that but you actually did talk to him. No offense but did you think about how your boyfriend will feel? I mean how would you feel if the guy you apparently "love" so much saw some girl that he thought was hot and decided to give her his number and started texting her all the time? I bet... you wouldn't feel great. You need to tell the guy you have a boyfriend, and probably tell your boyfriend. Expect either a fight or you getting dumped. [ Imperfectionist's advice column | Ask Imperfectionist A Question ]
ItssBatmanHoe answered Wednesday March 21 2012, 5:14 pm: Hey, well look if you love your boyfriend, you shouldn't keep this from him. For two big reasons, one he might find out on his own and that can jeopardize your relationship with him. Second, you wouldn't want your man to keep something like that from you. I honestly think you should, tell the guy that you met, that you have ah boyfriend, and stop talking to him. So, you need to figure if you love your boyfriend enough to drop the new guy, or you just don't feel the same anymore and you want to try something with this new guy. In my opinion, drop the new guy, because like the saying says, "Don't leave the one you love for the one you love, because they might leave you for the one they love." So talk to your boyfriend let him know you had no intention to cheat, hope this helps ah bit. Let me know if it does, and how things work out with your boyfriend & new crush.(:
-Daisy<3 [ ItssBatmanHoe's advice column | Ask ItssBatmanHoe A Question ]
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