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my boyfriend got over me so quick!?
My boyfriend and I just broke up and we loved each other alot like it was different and i just heard today for like 4 people that he was flirting with his ex last night!!! I started crying and i dont want to seem like a baby but i thought what we had was special and it hurts that he can be over me so quick. He told me that if we ever broke up he would never be able to date or flirt with another girl because he would miss me so much GOD HE IS A JERK and to be honest i want him back more than anything in the world but i am not telling him or anyone cuz i dont want to seem desperate. So what should I do?
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Hey!
This happened to me to :)
My ex got back with his ex the day after splitting up with me.
Just think about this. He must've been talking/texting/communicating with her whilst you were still together. So in a sense he kinda cheated. He may not what the hassle of going over the grief of loosing you, so he may get into a rebound relationship, instead of having to face up to his feelings.
The thing is, rebound relationships never last.
You want him back because its as if you can't have him, so thats what makes you want him-follow?
If I were you I'd try to move on, or act like you've moved on.
This guy sounds like a player, so don't play his game and be the doormat here. Stand up for yourself and move on. Not only is this attractive to other prospective boyfriends, he'll realise what an idiot he's been. If you ignore him he'll be sure to get in contact with you again, because he'll start to want you back.
But tbh if you don't want to be a doormat I'd say no-exes are exes for a reason :)
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I'm not sure if this will help at all other than to give you a little insight into teenage boys. Teenage boys very often confuse or intermingle love and lust. So when a break up occurs they are not as hurt as a girl will be.
A teenage boy in most cases wants only one thing. They are hard wired from puberty to find a willing sex partner. Someone to relive the pent up sexual tension that builds in them for the hormones now building in them. Hence the word Horny.
Yes your ex boyfriend and others like him are Jerks. Once they get what they want they are generally happy. If they can't get what they want they will move on to someone else. While trying to get what they want they will tell the girl anything she wants to hear to get her to give them what they want.
If this what happened to you and your boyfriend; you have learned a very valuable lesson. Be wary of boys that are players. There are some boys out there that are just as interested in you for who you are than what you have, pardon my crudeness, between your legs. They are few and far between. They are not the popular boys. They are usually shy, maybe a little bookish. These boys will show you a good time, treat you well and will most likely not be all hands.
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