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My bf dumped me
here is my story If you could please take the time to read this I would be SO grateful: ok so I moved in to a new neighborhood about 2 years ago and i met this sweet guy who lives across the street from me.We will call him Jack. Jack and i soon became best friends and we did everything together. He made me laugh and we were always together. Well when I dumped my bf, Jack soon asked me out and i said yes and he promised he would never break my heart. I beleived him because he seemed like a genuine guy. we dated for 7 months and we loved each other like crazy. Yes, sometimes we would get into arguments, but we would always work it out:) We would hang out every night and day since he lives right across the street from me and sometimes we would sit and cuddle under the stars and he would hold my hand and tell me he would love me forever and our first kiss was under the stars too:) but anyway, two days ago it became too stressful and he broke up with me. I didnt cry at first but he did for a long time. It really hit me last night and thats when all my tears came out, but anyway, he texted me saying to stay out of his life and i said "If you really loved me you wouldnt have let me go but now I realize you are just like all the other guys, I'm done being treated like that, you broke my heart" He wrote me a note in school saying he was going to kill himself and thank god he didnt but what really made me mad today was i heard from like 3 of his friends that he was flirting with his ex last night majorly and thats the same girl that would always interfere with our relationship!! I started crying and ran out of the classroom cuz i couldnt take the stress anymore. I wrote him a note telling him he broke my heart and thanking him for all the good times we had and i shoved it in his locker....so what do I do???????
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You did all you could.. and NEEDED to do! That's always a hard thing to handle, but you need to realize that you deserve better, and you will FIND better. I, truly believe that everything happens for a reason. And I know this will probably be hard to hear, but he wasn't the guy for you. Now, all that's left for you to do is move on and try and enjoy being single for a wow, versus jumping back into a relationship so soon. Focus on yourself, school, family and friends. Sooner or later you're going to meet another guy who will love and respect you.. really!! And one last thing, remember... never settle for less than you deserve, because we all deserve the BEST, and absolutely NOTHING less. Hope this helps, and if you ever need someone to talk to or anything else, just message me! :)
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Well,you just did the right thing.If he's already dumped you,that means he doesn't deseve you,you should even thank him for having done that,cuz it would have been even worse if you had discovered it by yourself.It's gonna be hard,but you'll overcome it one day,he hasn't been totally honest,though,cuz I guess he wouldn't want to hurt you.Start from scratch,start doing things for your own good,take up some interesting activity or whatever,you'll see that after some time the right one will come,but always bear in mind that any person in the planet may let you down one day,so try not to take it as a tragedy,they are only human and so are you,hope I've helped:)
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