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Location: Illinois
Age: 23
Member Since: March 22, 2012
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Ok there's a guy I know (through my friends boyfriend) who I really like. We've known eachother for about a year but have usually just said hi. Recently we've spoke more, just casual messages on facebook whenever we're both online.
My friends boyfriend said to me at his party 'I hope you're going to talk to him' I said why? He said 'because he likes you but he's not good at talking to girls he likes'
Any way we did talk, we got along really well, kissed at the end of the night etc. We've text since then, but I always text him first. He seems happy to talk back to me, asks questions, flirts and was talking about the last time he fell in love. I feel like I'm annoying him when I text him, and also nervous for some reason! Do you think I should continue texting him? Do you think he seems shy? Do you think he likes me? (link)
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I think he definitely likes you! Which is good. I think you've done you part, seeing you text him first, usually. But now I want to give you a challenge... Try not texting him first. If he likes you, I'm sure he likes talking to you and seeing you. So let him chase you and not saying you chase him, but figurely speaking here. I'm going to bring up another point for you to keep in mind... Guys like a challenge, usually! So don't just ignore him and play hard to get, but stop being the one texting him FIRST! And if you're confused about whether or not he likes you, try not and you'll find out! Hope this helps. And if you need any more advice, shoot me a message! :)
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here is my story If you could please take the time to read this I would be SO grateful: ok so I moved in to a new neighborhood about 2 years ago and i met this sweet guy who lives across the street from me.We will call him Jack. Jack and i soon became best friends and we did everything together. He made me laugh and we were always together. Well when I dumped my bf, Jack soon asked me out and i said yes and he promised he would never break my heart. I beleived him because he seemed like a genuine guy. we dated for 7 months and we loved each other like crazy. Yes, sometimes we would get into arguments, but we would always work it out:) We would hang out every night and day since he lives right across the street from me and sometimes we would sit and cuddle under the stars and he would hold my hand and tell me he would love me forever and our first kiss was under the stars too:) but anyway, two days ago it became too stressful and he broke up with me. I didnt cry at first but he did for a long time. It really hit me last night and thats when all my tears came out, but anyway, he texted me saying to stay out of his life and i said "If you really loved me you wouldnt have let me go but now I realize you are just like all the other guys, I'm done being treated like that, you broke my heart" He wrote me a note in school saying he was going to kill himself and thank god he didnt but what really made me mad today was i heard from like 3 of his friends that he was flirting with his ex last night majorly and thats the same girl that would always interfere with our relationship!! I started crying and ran out of the classroom cuz i couldnt take the stress anymore. I wrote him a note telling him he broke my heart and thanking him for all the good times we had and i shoved it in his locker....so what do I do???????
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You did all you could.. and NEEDED to do! That's always a hard thing to handle, but you need to realize that you deserve better, and you will FIND better. I, truly believe that everything happens for a reason. And I know this will probably be hard to hear, but he wasn't the guy for you. Now, all that's left for you to do is move on and try and enjoy being single for a wow, versus jumping back into a relationship so soon. Focus on yourself, school, family and friends. Sooner or later you're going to meet another guy who will love and respect you.. really!! And one last thing, remember... never settle for less than you deserve, because we all deserve the BEST, and absolutely NOTHING less. Hope this helps, and if you ever need someone to talk to or anything else, just message me! :)
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Basikly he has slept with my friend she wants to be my friend and he wants to go out with me againxx
Don't call me silly (link)
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Don't get me, I understand everyone makes mistakes and no ones perfect, however, you need to know you deserve better do yourself. The fact that he cheated on you is horrible, but with your friend? He has no respect for you and you can do soo much better. Don't settle for less than what you deserve.. As far as your friend, you need I decide if she's REALLY your friend considering what she did. In my opinion, I don't think that being a very good friend. It's up to you what you do but just remember we all deserve the BEST, and nothing less!! Hope this helps! :)
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