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19/F 24/M Coworkers. Mutual feelings?
Lately I'm really into my male coworker. We talk at work alot and I know the usual signs for when a guy is into you but it makes me feel neurotic thinking about it haha. But, in general hell start conversations with me and kinda always be next to me throughout our shift. We have slightly proactive conversations but they aren't ever truly serious and always in good fun. I.e. we were chatting about how he usually doesn't talk to girls like that and I said it's cause I'm like a bro (guys girl) and he said "aww no don't say that. I'd hit it haha" And he also tells me that he likes talking/working with me and that I'm easy to talk to. He also remembers things about me that I've forgotten that I've told him. Overall I get the feeling he's into me, but I don't want to assume he does, when he only wants to have sex or just be friends. Any input/feedback?
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Dont do it. A simillar thing happened to me. I had a work romance and it turned out bad. He was eyeing me at work from day 1. It was only a temp job so glad I never saw him again. It depends if you want to have sex with him or not.
I liked the guy back but I was still a virgin & my parents told him I could stay over but dont have sex with her. He said ok. So I went over, we watched a movie & then he started kissing me. I was fine with that but he fingered me without asking, made me bleed & took my virginity. After that we took him to court to have a restraining order because he kept harrasing me after with abusive text message. Im only 18 & hes 28. My parents even spoke to him but he still didnt listen. Please dont get with him. He said he liked talking to me too & flirting with me. But it turned out all wrong. If you want to have sex with him thats fine but if you dont, dont stay at his house cause he'll try anything to get with you. Please dont fall for it. Trust me its not a good idea. Hope I helped. virginity. A
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Honestly, i'd avoid a workplace romance because it's kinda like high school romances where if anything awkward or bad happens your still going to have to see them all the time.
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because i'm sure he is aware of that too... maybe you should see if he likes you.
Maybe just hang out AS FRIENDS outside of work one day.
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Workplace romances are never a good idea. If they fail you still have to see each other at work which can cause conflicts for both of you.
The office problems aside; if all he is looking for is a friend with benefits relationship. Is this something you would be comfortable with? This type of relationship plus the difference in your ages tells me he may have another interest outside of work that might not be providing benefits until she gets a wedding ring.
These are just a few things you should consider before moving forward with any relationship with him, especially one that ends in the bedroom.
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