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My bf broke up with me just because he thought i was cheating on him
I didn't have any boy friends for like a year,last week I met this boy which I've known from before.he was actually my ex' friend.we knew each other from before.we went out for dinner with my ex and couple of his friends and this guy was there with his girlfriend.we knew each other from there.a year has passed and I saw him one day,and then I realized he broke up with his girlfriend,too.so he asked me on a date.we went out for a week or so,and during that time I realized that he was saying his ex' name so much!!like he was still into her or something.I didn't say anything and let him talk about what ever he wanted,once he even was talking about his ex breast size!!like always I didn't say anything.he was so possessive ,jealous and he actually told me that I have to break up with all the guys that I've hung out with.even my best friend!!so one day I'm at my house talking to him on the phone,then my cellphone rings!it turns out it's one of my friends from college and he was gay.I was scared to answer so I picked up and I told him I'm gonna call him back in 2 mins.My boyfriend acted weird and he was like why didn't you answer him!he forced me to call him and put his voice on speaker and see what's going on between us.I called the guy about 4 times he didn't pick up!then my boyfriend said give me his phone number.I was devastated ,he was insulting me.I hesitated a while and I said u have to trust me,do you? and he said no!!so I hung up,I was angry that night so the day after that I called him he said you were cheating on me!I apologized and I said i wasn't cheating and let's start over but he yelled at me and he broke up with me in very bad terms actually he insulted my friends and ... I liked this guy, I sent him messages after that and he didn't respond.do you think what I did was wrong??????plzz someone tell me what to do!!!:-(do you think he was looking for a reason to break up with me so he could be with his ex???
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Are you serious? The guy your with is a immature little child who has no buisness being in a relationship, how do you not see that? Maybe you need an explanation of what a relationship is.
See a relationship is when two people decide they like each and make a commitment to each other which is based on TRUST, HONESTY (and other things), they're saying they want that person and that person only to be involved with. Your boyfriend is ridiculous and doesnt deserve someone like you.
When a boyfriend tells you you can't talk to any guys he is really saying that he doesn't trust you. If he doesn't trust you he will NEVER have genuine feelings for you, you will always be unhappy, and your going to put up with his childish bull shit.
My advice is to move on, because he will never make you happy.
You seem like a nice girl but you have much to learn when it comes to relationships. The next guy you decide to make that kind if commitment to make sure you've gotten to know him, you trust him, you have feelings for him; and he feels the same for you.
A good relationship is based many things, trust being one of them and one of the things lacking in yours. Gl
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