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Why is he being secretive?
My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years. I worked late tonight so we couldn't hang out. He told me that he would Be hanging out with his friends at his house. I was totally cool with that. He then sent me a text explaining how he wasn't feeling well and I asked him questions regarding his sickness and never got a reply. Later on he sent me a text sending me a message from my mom. After work I tried calling him and he didnt answer. I tried a second time and his phone answered and all I could hear was loud music and muffled voices and the music sounded buzzy. As if it were coming from huge speakers. I hung up and tried again and got no answer. If he really was at a party. I don't understand why he is making it a secret. I wouldn't care if he went to a party. I have been okay with that before. My plan is to ignore the situation and not mention anything about it when we talk. Silence can be a killer in a way. If he has sense he will apologize for not answering my calls and explain why right? What do you guys think?
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I disagree with your solution. To ignor a problem in your relationship might give him license to continue the behavior.
He may not ever tell you what he was doing, he might not have been at a party, he may have been frustrated over something, he may have issues he is embarrased about, if you approch the subject from that angle he may give it up. Secrets are lies, and there is no need to lie to a lover
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