I have this huge problem:
There is this guy who I am not really going out with but I am. There is also another guy who is my bestest guy friend for life. His name is nick. Nick and my Korean friend just broke up? Nick is Vietnamese, Mexican and sexy. We used to be really cloar last year but then we moved to 6th grade and we started transitioning to classes. Nick wasn't allowed to date past year. Any way, my "boyfriend" and I are ok but we are kInd of scared to tlk to each other. He says he loves me alot. I like my boyfriend but I like my best friend as well. Also my female bfflud likes nick too and thinks I should stick with boyfriend. I am bff with about all the black ( not to b racist, I am black) girls on my 6 th grade white team ( we have a white team and blue team for eah grade6-8) All my closest bffs ( simoan, guamian, and nick lking girl) want me with boyfriend. I mean boy friend and I love each other even though we aren't going out but wat about bestie? He woodnt go out with me anyway cause I could never amount up to his sexiness( I'm so close though) and we r totally different races but i still feel for him. Any opinions?
Additional info, added Monday March 19 2012, 2:35 am: To YataiGuy:
I know, I just mean he would never date me anyhow. I not his type. It's not really about sex since we are only 12, and boyfriend goes crazy when i bring up sex( in a funny way). He's telling everyone that we are going out even though we aren't. I'm okay with it because i know him and i know what it means, but he can never ask me out. Now it seems like he's ignoring me. He doesn't talk to me a lot anymore. He was always trying to get me to say that i love him and always trying to get me to talk to him as much as possible. But now he barely does anything.I go out of my way to talk and he does nothing.GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? YataiGuy answered Saturday March 17 2012, 1:40 am: Race should NEVER be a factor if two people love or are attracted to each other.
At your age, boys just want sex. Stick with your girlfriends and make a pact, BFFs stick together and no one dates a guy any of the others have ever broke up with.
And try to stay out of competition with your BFFs for the same guy - it only puffs up the guy into thinkin its rainin bitches and es some love god, (which hes not), AND ruins your friendships. Look beyond the boys of today, look at the friendships for a lifetime. [ YataiGuy's advice column | Ask YataiGuy A Question ]
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