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Did I make the right decision?!!
I'm 20f. He is 21m. We have been a on & off couple for over a year. I love him so much, I can be my complete self w/him. We never really fought or got in arguements, except when occasionally he would have to cancel plans for family. Other than that we've only had 1 issue & that is..that when he starts to see himself fall in love/getting attached he freaks out & ends things. He's broken up w/me first after 8 months of dating..it was really hard. But then we started dating again a month later..we were not an official couple this time. We said we were dating only each other but no bf/gf until he fixed his issues. This lasted 5 months. Then in Jan. His mom had a stroke, he took it really hard. Things got really overwhelming
& he ended things. He missed me a lot & a month later not only did he come back wanting me...he said he wants everything I want! A committed relationship, sees himself falling in love w/me now that he isn't scared anymore, sees himself living & marrying me one day. Obviously I'm so happy! & after thinking about it, I decided that I still want all that w/him..if he can proove to me hes serious then will become official. Were dating right now until I can trust that he won't leave. I feel like he's been trying harder & is more open! But it's only been 2 weeks so will see. One other thing..when we were apart I wanted to move on so badly & fast, that I started to go on dates w/this other guy. We went on 4 dates, but I didn't feel a great connection & I still loved my ex. But The new guy was super sweet, we want the same things, he's perfect on paper. But I chose to take a risk & go back to my ex..I feel right when I'm w/him. Only thing is, I'm sooo scared that he could change his mind & break my heart again. Question is, do you think I made the right decision? Picking him over the new guy? Taking a risk by believing he's really serious about this?
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Well, it's a good think you're not cheating.
Ok, well, I think you made the right decision. You said you loved him, right? Well then it's worth going back to him if you love him.
I hope everything works out, and I hope I helped!:)
-Bella
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