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I need someone to ease my mind about a pregnancy scare and tell me I'm fine
Okay, this question will be very detailed and graphic, sorry about that, but I think it's necessary. I'm 17 and female, my boyfriend and I love each other very much and have been together for a long time. On Thursday, we were together in his bed and we started to make out. Clothes came off, things got heavy, and I gave him head. He finished in my mouth, and then we cuddled. Neither of us were wearing any clothes at this point. His penis never went in me, I don't even think it touched the front of me, but I need someone to tell me that I'm just being paranoid and I couldn't be pregnant. I'm a worrier, about everything, and driving myself crazy! Please help!
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You are being paranoid. As long as his penis did not' enter you or come into close proximity to your vagina with any semen emanating or remaining on him you cannot be pregnant.
There is a Federal Law called HIPPA which has a part that was specifically written for young women. This part allows for young people to see doctors concerning there reproductive system without parental permission. This law affords them total confidentiality once they reach the age of 14.
You can visit any doctor or GYN and discuss any problem in confidence. Not the doctors or their staff can tell your parents why you are see the doctor or what you are being treated for. If you want birth control pills the doctor will write a prescription which the pharmacy must fill in confidence.
If you are this paranoid about pregnancy you might want to consider seeing a doctor about birth control. You do not need parental permission to do so or as I said to be treated by the doctor. If mom accompanys you to the doctor she will be told she must stay in the waiting room.
While at the doctors office you will be asked to sign the office HIPPA compliance form. This form explains your rights under HIPPA. One of which is you must express in writing who the doctor can tell about any condition you are treated for before the doctor can release aby information. You cannot be forced to give anyone permission including your parents.
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you are definitely just scaring yourself. there's no way you can be pregnant in the situation you've described. I would however recommend that you two take a trip to your local clinic and ask about birth control options. If you two decide to take the next step (or if you already have) being put on birth control will help to put your mind at ease.
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