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He dumped me because I wasn't good enough for him
So last Spring Break this guy that I couldn't stop thinkiong about asked me out and of course I said yes. I liked him so much that whenever I thought of him (while we were going out) I would lose my appitie. So for the next week I barely ate anything because of the horrible butterflies I got from him.... A couple of months later things weren't going too well and he broke up with me. He said I wasn't good enough for him, which are words from his friends. My friends told him opposite though. Anyway, I know he was a jerk and I shouldn't be worried about this but one of my friends said something that worries me today...
I have a friend that is kind of plugged into ALLL of the school drama and such, he said that my ex still realllly likes me. He doensn't really ever talk to me and I text him once a month or so but he never replies. What do you think I should beleive?
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There is a rule and that rule is "Don't believe everything you hear until you hear it yourself"
You are going by what you friends say? Why are you allowing people to live the life YOU live. This is how we miss opportunities in our lives.
The person below me is right actions do speak louder then words but they also missed that sometimes our words speak louder then our actions.
If a guy tells you that you aren't good enough then it's actually vice versa he isn't good enough for YOU. What you really should do is find someone who will respect you and appreciate the person that you are. Also for future reference never believe what your friends say. When it comes to relationships it is about you and your partner. Not you, your partner and your friends and I would tell them to mind their business. It's rude to go and bud your nose into other people's business.
I wouldn't believe your friends when they say your ex still really likes you, Again live life for you. If your ex did like you I'm sure he will let you know but believing everything you hear isn't going to make life better for you. In the meantime my advise for you is to move on and meet someone else and really.....I would be making some new friends too. Ones that aren't baggage and know how to respect your friendship.
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The saying "actions speak louder than words" came to mind as I read your question.
His friends tell you that he dumped you because you weren't good enough for him. I think you should make it clear to them, so the3y can tell him, that you're happy to meet him as a friend but getting involved with him again is out of the question until he proves himself to be good enough for you. Treat him as you would any prospective boyfriend, with reservations.
Did he explain why he dumped you or is it all from his friends? If it was all from his friends, you need to check that out, sometimes things get confused. It bothers me slightly that he couldn't explain it to you himself. Are you so scary or is he so weak that he had to ask his friends to do his dirty work? Not very grown-up behaviour. Perhaps you're better off without him.
Hope this helps, let me know how you get on?
Best wishes X.
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