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Divorce: I don't want to be with him anymore
I have been married to my husband for almost 20 years I got married when I was 14 yrs old. He cheated on me and had a child with his mistress. I loved him so much that I didn't care I just wanted to be with him no matter what. Now I have realized that I was so stupid to have stayed with him. I stopped loving him about 5 yrs ago but I have stayed with him because I feel sorry for him! I am now gonna be 34 yrs old & want to move on with my life to see if I can find some happiness. I just don't know what to do make him understand that I don't want to be with him anymore??
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Simple, You tell him you want a divorce. If he ask you why then you tell him straight up "You cheated on me with another women, I've tried to suck it up and make it work but I can't forgive you for what you've put me through"
You should never stay married to someone who has an affair with someone else. It's disrespectful, It's wrong and it's just immoral. You've pity him but in a way you have caused yourself self pity for being with him for so long. You are young, You are still capable of finding someone else and you will that I can promise you. As long as you allow yourself to hold onto pain you are never going to find happiness in your life.
My advise to you is to file for divorce get it finalized and move on with your life. Go and find happiness, Be free and live to the fullest. In the future never feel like you have to be with someone because you feel bad for them. Your husband fucked up, Damage is done and you deserve better.
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